Memories and tributes

In the days after Eric’s death UNISON set up a Remembering Eric Roberts web page where people could leave their tributes. The UNISON team did a great job of curating that page and there are some very special messages there from people whose lives Eric affected in all sorts of ways.

It is very nice to see messages from MPs and from London’s mayor, Sadiq Khan and I know Eric would have appreciated those very much. But I also know that he would have been proudest of the messages from close colleagues like Gail Adams, Andrea Gibbs and Liz Thompson – to name just some of the special people he worked with over the years.

And messages like that from Linda Hobson of the Newcastle Hospitals Branch would have moved him too. She describes how Leanne, a young member of her branch, was inspired to get over her nerves about speaking at Conference when she saw Eric chairing a session and said ‘”what a lovely and kind man he seemed and that if he could get up there and do that she could deliver her speech” – which she did, brilliantly’.  Eric received a tweet about this in the days after Conference, and it was one of the things he most wanted to tell me about the next time we saw each other. This is the sort of thing that made him proudest: knowing that he had inspired a young member with confidence to speak in front of a conference that he had also found daunting in the (not-so-distant) past.

Eric wasn’t actually very self-confident. I believe that in the last couple of years he was finally beginning to see how much other people admired and respected him outside of his immediate family. He already knew how his real family – Jane, Jack and Rhian – and his LAS UNISON family and I felt about him: he was always secure in our love and respect. But beyond us, he was taken by surprise each time he was affirmed, for example when he saw the standing ovation when his presidency was announced at Conference.

He treasured all of this. Modestly.

Several people have said how he never sought office, nor took it because it made him feel important, but only because he thought he could make a difference for other people. If only more people in public life were motivated in the same way!

But enough of my own opinions! Below I will post some links to articles and some of the extra messages and tributes that came my way via Facebook and email. If you would like to add something of your own (words, photos, video or audio) please email me at Eggonthemoon@kathyj.com or use the comments box below. Do add a photo of yourself if you would like me to post that next to your contribution.

Kathy Jones

 

Healthcare Manager, the magazine for MIP and Ambulance Today have both published obituaries.

 

Pages from MIP’s magazine

My friend Liz posted this on the LAS Nostalgia Facebook site on November 25:

I love this photo of Eric. It was a happy moment in the summer to open up my post and see his smiling face in print. Much love to Kathy and Eric’s family, friends and comrades xxx

It gave many people the chance to send messages and share their feelings. Thank you to everyone who did that.  Here are just a few of the comments.

Olive Plowman: I lost my Eric last month , thoughts are with you Kathy he was a lovely man always had a smile on his face every time I saw him at Waterloo xxx

Andy Heward He’ll leave a gaping hole in many people’s hearts and minds. My heartfelt thoughts go out to you and Jack.

Peter Thorpe: Very sad to hear this news. Eric has left a tremendous legacy not just at LAS but in Unison. Kathy my thoughts are with you and all of Eric’s friends and family.

Sheila Beaton: I am so devastated at this news but also have so many bloody funny memories too. Eric was such a good man who cared so passionately for the Ambulance Service. My thoughts are with Jack and the rest of the family x x

John Pottle: All of us past, present, and indeed in the future have so much to thank Eric for, my heartfelt condolances

Gary Edwards: I worked closely with Eric for many years, Eric worked tirelessly to make the service a better place to work and improve working lives, he was a man who stuck by his values, whilst devoted to his union work he was a very social person, I attended many conferences with Eric, my thoughts go out to Kathy and Eric’s family at this difficult time, he will be irreplaceable in his dedication and work. Rip Eric

Andrea Gibbs: You were my rock and I will miss you terribly xxxxx

Gary Banting-Lee: Sincere condolences Kathy Jones. Eric was a great guy and colleague. I learnt a great deal from him. Regards. Gary

Sarah Hollowday: Very shocked and sad on hearing about Eric,such a great guy and I had so much respect for him,I know he worked tirelessly for staff but he also helped me as an individual case and I’ll always be grateful,much love and thoughts to his family and all that loved him xx

Marretta Corliss: Kathy, you don’t know me but my nick name is Metsy (or Mitsy) but Eric was an absolute legend ! I worked with him for years at Camden years ago . He was amazing, helped everybody, kind, a real sweetie. Everybody is just stunned. We all had such good times and laughed heartily! RIP lovely Eric.

At David's leaving do in December 2008
At David’s leaving do in December 2008

From David Jervis, formerly Communications Director at London Ambulance Service:

I know there has been much on Facebook and Twitter about the death yesterday of Unison president and London Ambulance Service branch secretary Eric Roberts but I just wanted to pay my personal tribute to a great man.
Eric dedicated most of his life to serving his fellow ambulance workers and colleagues in the wider NHS. He fought for better terms and conditions – much deserved for those underpaid ambulance crews who strive, sometimes against the odds to care for, and save the lives of, Londoners.
Sometimes Eric could be a hard man – he needed to be – and he made enemies along the way. But he was a caring person with great compassion – that is why he did the job. He was also a loving person with a mischievous, fantastic sense of humour. I send my condolences to Kathy Jones and to all his family.
Goodbye dear friend – rest in peace. x

Then on February 8th David added this wonderful post to Facebook:

 

The “order of service”

A significant – almost joyous – moment at the memorial event held for the late, great Eric Roberts at the Trades Union Congress (TUC) HQ today came when his son Jack Roberts (a true ‘chip off the old block’) said from the podium to a packed audience of hundreds: “My dad would be so pleased at his son speaking at the TUC but would be thoroughly pissed off at the circumstances.”

A succinct capturing of Eric’s rock solid proud trade unionism together with a clear passing on of the baton of beautiful humour from father to son.

The Hall at Congress House

Eric – president of Unison and branch secretary at the London Ambulance Service – died in November. On the day of his funeral in December I posted a tribute to him on Facebook. I will not repeat those words now.
However, the personal tributes spoken that day were echoed this afternoon at the celebration of Eric’s life in the TUC HQ and then at Unison’s HQ on the Euston Road. Anecdotes illustrated Eric’s enormous dedication to family and trade union; his care and compassion for his friends, colleagues and patients; his bravery and his gargantuan sense of humour.

His partner Kathy Jones, his family and many friends heard what they already knew – Eric led “a great life: he made us laugh, cry and he made us proud.”

Unison general secretary Dave Prentis ended his eulogy with: “Thank you Eric for just being you.”

To Kathy, Jack and other grieving family members and friends, I say this: In those moments of silence and sadness when grief raises its head again and again, do not think for one minute that Eric is being forgotten. There will always be someone speaking of him and there will always be someone benefitting from his good works.

ERIC, for goodness sake don’t rest in peace – wherever you are, shout at the footie results; tell some guffawing jokes; cut some manager down with a dry quip; and see if you can transmit some care and compassion – we need it !
As we sang today, YNWA